Security, Safety And Stability!
Only bring in safety, security and stability in your life. First give this to yourself, then you will find the same characteristics in others.
Look for this in yourself, if it’s there, then nurture it, grow it.
If it’s not, learn to make yourself safe, bring yourself to safety, to safe places, people, situations.
Cultivate security and stability.
If you’ve grown up in a chaotic place/childhood, then, it’s even more important to do this for yourself, as it won’t be natural.
Find stable people, relationships, situations. They may seem boring to you, but that’s what you need.
If your soul is used to ups and downs, fear and love, swings, highs and lows, happiness and great sadness, you won’t look for stability.
This will seem an alien concept to you. It is even more necessary to find people who are stable, reliable, secure and safe, so that, overtime, you will learn that you deserve these for yourself.