When both elements balance in your mind, your body will balance too.
The left side is the water, the yin. The right side of your body is the fire, the yang. So, we have both elements in our body.
The right side is the masculine, strong, protective, fighter spirit, the giver, the one who wants to provide, who is hot and wants to control. The left is the feminine, the receiver, the soft, nurturing side, the one who is cool and passive.
You do not need to look for these outside of you, you need to cultivate these for yourself. If you are looking to be rescued, provided for, protected and looked after. Then, you need to work on your masculine energy. We all have both energies, regardless of our gender.
If you’re looking to be nurtured, loved, cared for, then you need to work on your feminine energy. That motherly love wants to heal and be whole.
The masculine is the protector, the provider and strong warrior who wants to bring security, protection to the soft feminine. Once your own energy is balanced, you will find that you can do that for yourself and that there is no need to look for this in another who will bring these to you.
The sweet, loving feminine wants to be protected, feel safe and secure by the divine masculine. Which once you have balanced both your masculine and feminine energies, you will find that you have all these within yourself and that you can look after yourself really well.