Have you fallen into the trap of blaming others for the misery that befall you? things that continue to happen now, is in your hands. You always have a choice. I am of course referring to things and situations that we are able to change and are within OUR powers to change.
I am referring to circumstances that we are able to change, such as; leaving a toxic situation, healing our hearts from trauma, taking control of our emotions, becoming in charge of our lives, stop complaining, stop being the perpetual victim, heal the patterns of the past, standing up for ourselves, moving onto a new perspective, dimension, removing toxic people from our lives and so on.
If we remain somewhere or in a situation that we are able to control and we aren’t taking action, then we have to take responsibility for our action/inaction. Become in control of your life, of your mind, if you are stuck in a toxic pattern, let me show you the way to free yourself.
Here at Golden Sun Academy, I have written a few books on healing the self, healing the self with love, healing the mind, body, spirit, especially the emotions. I have also given some speeches, spoke at some seminars on how to be in control of the mind.
Most people on this earth are unconscious – they are walking, talking from the unconscious self, to become conscious of ourselves, we have to take a few steps and this is exactly what I teach, how to become conscious about everything in life.
By becoming conscious and in control of our minds, we become super-powers of focused laser-minds. We can focus our attention to something and things manifest. Most people are born and die in the unconscious mode. This is what buddhist/hindu monks/priests have known for eternity.
If you would like to learn how to become a bank of super powers, get in touch.
Karma is the law of the earth. Everyone has a bank balance, whether in the negative or positive. But everyone has Karma, it’s the law. When we are born on this earth, we have Karma.
So, what it Karma? Karma means actions and could also be any omission on our part to act. So, an omission of action, also accrues bad Karma.
Good Karma is good action and intentions. Bad Karma is bad actions and intentions. These also include omission of action. For example, if there was injustice, we take the side of the injustice, we act and intend to harm others, or we do not act, that gets added to our negative Karmic bank. So, coming with clean hands always is key to having a positive karmic bank account.
Leave others to do what they do, do good acts, intend good things, stand up for justice and righteousness, defend the vulnerable and the weak, be on the side of justice. Do what you have to do to get justice, in the name of righteousness, stand up and be counted, voice out injustices, stand up for the weak, poor and vulnerable, give voice to those who have none. Speak up, speak out against those who abuse their powers and keep others bound in pain and suffering.
Earth has a way of making people pay their debt, it never goes away, we pay the debt of even our ancestors, so, our karmic bank account also has our ancestors’ karma included. So, to clear all bad debts in our account, we must also do good for our ancestors. We aren’t an island, we are social and collective beings, we are connected by our Karma.
A Karmic family come together through the bond of their karma. Family come together through their karma and karmic balance, so, perpetrators tend to come to family of perpetrators, souls in a family tend to have same Karma. So, a family of victims would come together as the ancestors would have been victims as well.
A family of abusers, would have a lot of abusers born in the same family as soul family, their karma is to work on clearing the family debt of from abuse and violation of others. Collectively the ancestors and family have the same energetic imprint and Karma.
Our ancestors have a lot in common with us, most of the time, we are all living the same life, the same pain, the same suffering and same cycle again and again and again, until someone in the family breaks the chain.
Each ancestor has an exact imprint of energy as us, we share a lot with our ancestor, so, if someone was victimised in our ancestral lineage, the group in the family would have some kind of victimised history as well. But, we are all victims one would say, yes, it’s true. The perpetrators/abusers are also victims, the abused are also victims. So, there are only victims on this earth. Yes, this is true, until Karma is cleared.
When we clear Karma, we say we do not want to be a victim anymore, the abused or abuser who are both victims – come out of the cycle of abuse. One makes the jump out of the circle, does everything to have justice and prosecute those who have wronged us.
The justice is in a spiritual court, some go to actual court, but it’s a matter of justice must be done. The abuser is taken to a spiritual or legal court and a case is lodged against them. The divine or legal court finds in favour of the abused. Then, the debt is cleared in the name of the abused/victim and awards are made to the aggrieved just like in any court.
Karma is a system of justice, it’s a spiritual system of balancing the scales, the gavel comes down as all memories are stored in the akasha (ethers), there is no escaping the karmic laws of equity and justice.
Karma does not mean bad karma only,where one suffers and suffers, bad karma can also be suffered by good souls, who have done nothing wrong, for example – a good soul suffers injustices all their life, suffers abuse, harassment, violation and tresspasses. Why? why do good souls have to suffer? that’s because they have been done wrong and the wrong carries on if the victim does not stand up for themselves and make it right for themselves and the whole ancestral lineage suffers together.
Once a wrong has been righted, a soul’s bad Karma is cleared. Then, good Karma pays off. Some may be angry that there is bad karma for good people. Yes, that’s the case, but remember, the bad karma is not yours, it’s transferred, switched, pushed on to you, once you realise that others will push their bad debts onto you, then you can be careful as to whose debt you’re paying.
Pay your own debt, not others’. However, the good thing about Karma is that its memory is good, when a debt is pushed onto you, it remembers, at some point, you will be able to return the debt back to its source, take back your good name and clear your Karma.
You probably do not have much bad karma ( if you have been victimised) a lot of bad karma comes from you not being able to act because you have been fearful to speak up, speak out or stand up for yourself and others. Once you do, the karma clears itself.
So the suffering and pain has to do with you not doing what you needed to do to help yourself and your ancestors, the perpetrators love a weak person, so they can dump all their horror and evil on them. So, as soon as you say no, no more and stand up to them, your karma clears very fast as you do not have bad karma when you come with clean hands and stand up for justice and righteousness.
A great time is here to clear karma for the souls who love justice and clean hands, it’s time for pure hearts and angels to clear karma. Also,watch justice being made in your favour, public shame, humiliation, curse are all cleared now. All karma are cleared, returned to rightful owner. It’s time to clear your name and take back your identity.
Karma is cleared and justice is done in your favour when you have a pure heart. Enjoy the rewards!
It’s been a while hasn’t it? the walk has been long, it has seemed endless, all of us are walking this path to total freedom of the soul.
Depending on the amount of work we do we get to our destination through detours and many deaths, but eventually, when we do not give up, the victory comes.
The victory of total freedom of the soul. The full circle has been achieved. Let me tell you one thing, it’s not a secret at all – the past, present and the future are all happening at once. Time is not linear, it’s all happening in the now as well as the past and future.
So, we are creating, recreating what happened in the past, in a different way, same lessons, but in an illusory way. All the issues of the past, are taking place now, also in the past thereby impacting the future.
Problems with others, happened in the past, especially the ones that do not go away, there is karma (actions and heavy debt) to be paid back. It’s not always necessarily you have to pay the debt, perhaps you are, but also perhaps you’re here to collect what’s owed to you.
If others have victimised you, for no good reason – for some selfish inequitable personal or collective gain or were on the wrong side of history, worked for those who did a lot of wrong, abused their powers, then, you will collect your debt. Because life wants to make it right to you, justice wants to be served, your karma is not full of bad actions, but that of others’ bad actions, that negatively affected and impacted your life.
If on the other hand, you were the perpetrator, then the debt must be paid in full. We must always come with clean hands, act right, act with the highest integrity, justice is always done, if not now, it will be done at a later stage, but fear not, you must pursue the quest for justice, to obtain it. I.e – take back your powers from those who took it by force and had no right to do so.
Those who have done you wrong, must come back in front of the equitable court, where one must always come with clean hands and there will be judgement made in your favour. Keep on walking on the righteous path, a lot of abusers/perpetrators/takers are being made accountable now. Confront injustices, evil acts and intentions.
So, if you have been waiting for justice for a long time, then this is the time to collect rewards, karma is cleared, debt is paid off, debtors pay you back, justice is done. It’s this time when goodness pays off, keep on filling your karmic bank with good positive actions, because it’s about to pay off with infinite interests.
Enjoy your path of goodness and equity. Always come with clean hands.
Ah the mind! what a minefield! How many people have control over their mind contents? thoughts? actions? the mind is a powerful powerhouse, an infinite hard drive, filled with super powers, as well a chaos and confusion.
If we come to believe everything the mind tells us, we have given it too much power. When we change the way we see things and the world changes, its people changes. Taming the mind is a powerful endeavour, that can be done after some practice.
The mind is a great saboteur, it sabotages us regularly, making us think things that are crazy, if we believe those crazy constructions of the mind, then it’s controlling us. Become in control of this saboteur, take control of the mind, the mind will make us think all kinds of things, to keep us controlled.
These could have been implanted inside us, or it could be complete fabrication. When we become in control of the mind, it cannot control us anymore, it cannot sabotage us anymore.
Telling the mind that it’s not in control anymore, that it cannot project lies onto us for us to believe, it then becomes tamed, a wild beast becomes totally tamed and under control. An undisciplined mind brings chaos and disorder. Controlling our thoughts, programming the mind with new programs, that we have installed into our system, is the best thing we can do.
If other programs, we haven’t agreed to, were installed, then of course our programs run the way it was programmed, by whomever it was programmed. But, when we take full control of our mind, delete horrific programs, viruses, implants, then it will respond to our own programs.
Self sabotage is when the mind does what it wants, without it being controlled by the person’s will. These programs run chaotic programs, it may have been running with errors, in our ancestors, we accepted it as it was passed on, but if we remove old defective programs and download new ones, healthy, updated, upgraded, we install anti viruses, firewalls, VPNs so only those whom we want to connect with, can connect with us.
We become in control of the mind, it cannot control us anymore. If others have downloaded programs in your hard drive, you agreed or did not object, then it was installed -removing those old programs is a must. Destructive programs running alongside the new programs, cause crashes, freezes and disorder.
Remember to reboot, scan the system often for worms, trojans, viruses or evil programs. These of course are people whom you do not want in your life, who have been somehow implanted – remove them by upgrading your system. Unwanted horror must be removed.
Clean your system, reboot or change the hard drive if you need to, to get rid of unwanted beasts, if necessary.
All the child wants is love, love and more love. Is this kind of love attainable on this earth? from earthly mothers? in this day and age, it seems humans do not know how to love. Love is equated with possession, abuse, control and all kinds of possessiveness that is being justified as love by everyone involved in these relationships.
A mother who controls her child to the extent of not allowing the child to be herself, himself, may justify it as love and discipline.
Our earthly values taught us that jealousy in a relationship means love and part of romance. That someone who loves us should be jealous and possessive.
These values also taught us that possessiveness means love – the more someone loves us, the more possessive they can become and it’s acceptable for a man or woman to be possessive, own their prize of “love”. Love has been misnamed, love doesn’t hurt, love heals, frees the spirit, allows total freedom to the spirit, love does not possess, but fear does.
When we are a child, we look to our parents for our own model to mould our own life. If our parents were not very balanced, then we become unbalanced too. When in the womb, how did our mother feel? were they happy of our arrival? of our existence? of us adding to their beautiful world or adding to their misery?
When we were in the womb, what seed was planted? seed of love or fear? this will reflect our life onwards. If our life is good, we attract good men/women/partners/friendships, then they have done a good job of loving us, honouring us, teaching us strong boundaries, setting us free to learn, make mistakes, choose our own life and how to live it. If not, the likelihood is that, we continue to make bad choices which take us back to destruction/fear/pain and suffering.
The good news is, whatever our life is right now, know that from now, this point on – we can make the change, if we are devoted to our own cause – self love, self honour, self worth, self mastery. This can change everything, honouring the self gives us everything we need, once we start to honour the self, we can go back to the past and heal it.
Once we start to honour the self, we will see that the past holds all of the secrets, a lot of it when we were not even aware of ourselves, i.e, when we were in the womb, or age between 0-7 years, that’s when the foundation were set for us. If we had a bad childhood, bad start, we can change it for us in the present. Heal the childhood, give ourself space to feel the grief, the pain or failure of our parents/family members, know that they had a lot of traumas too, which goes back generations to ancestors of the past.
The traumas and pain we feel is not something we feel alone. All of our ancestors feel the same, the energy gets passed from generation to generation in our DNA and bloodline, nothing ever goes away, until it is acknowledged and healed. In acknowledging our pain, we must also acknowledge the pain of our ancestors. Constellation healing, family placement healing is a good way of giving ancestors a platform to heal and be heard.
Acknowledging ancestors pain is a powerful way of healing our pain and suffering, the greater our pain, the more destructive our life, the more pain that is stored in the ancestors’ DNA, subconscious minds, which must be healed. It can be complex to deal with family/ancestors’ healing, as when you begin, the thread keeps on unravelling which can seem infinite in nature, as ancestral lineage can go back to millenia and if we take each person has their mother and father and grandparents, great-grandparents and so on, their pain and suffering, can go on for what seems to be forever.
But, if we want to deal with our own healing, we have to deal with the pain and suffering of the ancestors, we are linked, the tree of life, has roots, the trunk, branches and fruits. Which means we are part of a tree, if parts of the tree is sick, then we can’t be well. The tree as a whole needs to be looked at for us to be healed as part of the tree. If there is cancer in a part of the tree, it will catch up to the rest at some point.
In every generation there is a healer, but it depends if the healer can respond to the challenge and do the job, if the job is not done in that lifetime, then the task goes to the next generation, to the next healer, who again, if they do not rise to the healing challenge, then the task gets passed on and on and on and the healing demands more energy and becomes a bigger task.
Everyone must take responsibility of healing and dealing with their own pain and suffering. If they don’t then the healer becomes the one who bears the burden of the whole ancestral lineage, this can become and impossible task to achieve for one person. it is better to have more than one healer in a lineage of ancestors. This way the work is shared and the family heals fast. When we acknowledge the ancestors suffering, we give it space to heal, feeling the feelings of our ancestors, releasing them from their binds, karma is liberating to the souls of the past, present and future.
The inner child heals completely when it feels safe, protected, loved and honoured. This can only come when the adult loves their inner child, that is the biggest love and healing that will ever take place for the child. Self love is the greatest love and when the child accepts divine healing from the source, in the knowledge that humans are not perfect, divine is whole and only divine spirit can heal the child to wholeness and be the mother, father that the child has always needed, wanted and craved for.
When the child understand its own journey in this humanly existence, it heals completely. The inner child goes through a lot of trauma in its existence, in the womb, outside of the womb, growing up in an alien world, feeling different, unloved, lost, separation with itself, with others and then coming back to itself.
The finding the self part is very exciting, most of our life we think we are our parents, our friends, others on telly, we take parts of others and mimic to make believe we are who we aren’t. Then, when we become empowered, we remove all those fake layers and reveal ourself to ourself first and then the world.
We aren’t our mother, our father, brother, sister, friend/s, people on telly, we are totally unique, one of a kind, someone that is limitless, we exist at the same time we don’t exist, we are love, the sum of all that’s happened, the lessons, our ancestors, the sky, the elements, the earth, the water, fire, wood, trees, birds, butterflies, flowers, the star, planets, our art, we are and we aren’t all of these at the same time. No one can define who we are, as we are limitless beings of unlimited powers.
healing the inner child takes a long time, commitment and love to free ourselves from pain and suffering, this is total enlightenment and can be achieved on this plane. We can be free of pain and suffering, we can heal all of our pain and emotional suffering, our body, mind and spirit – minus the lessons of karma we have elected to learn in this lifetime.
Clearing karma is a must to reach freedom from pain and suffering. Total freedom of the soul is achievable, through hard work, patience and a lot of clearing work. The healing begins when the soul says, I want to be free, the healing begins and the soul becomes free in its own time.
If we give too much importance to others and how they treat us, how we are a victim of circumstances, a victim of others, then we will always be a victim of others.
What will it take for us to take our own life into our own hands? our happiness into our own hands? What will take to take back ALL our powers? to realise that we have always been enough, that others do not need to validate us, our happiness now – do not lie in others’ hands, actions or inactions.
If you have felt neglected, abandoned at some point in your life, you were being reminded that YOU have neglected and abandoned your own self. There is no greater thing than self love, it is complete love, when you feel the self love, you will feel the immense power you have, then it will not matter if you didn’t have a good life so far, if it was filled with pain and suffering, if your childhood was a really bad one, if you didn’t feel loved, or were abused by someone whom you trusted, if you weren’t protected by your parents, if your life was upside down.
What matters is that when we love ourself to the point of saying, ” I will not tolerate anyone, anything that abuses me, disrespects me, who does not honour me as much as I do, I will remove anyone from my life, if I don’t feel the level of honour and respect I have for myself” – and then follow up, give yourself that honour, that love, that respect that you have always wanted, waited for, once you have that for yourself, your energy will change and you will become ruthless in the way that you allow people to deal with you.
Once we begin to honour ourself, the world changes, the world aligns to bring more of the same vibration that we have been aligning with, all one-sided relations fall away, takers are dissolved, evil monsters cannot connect with us anymore, we become so elevated, that our energy repels those who do not align with us, friendships break, karmic relationships fall away, karma is cleared, pain and suffering dissolve, we see the truth about everything, we become very good at gaging situations and people.
It is important that we heal our wounds of the past and in childhood, so we have a good life. Healing our past will bring up a lot of traumas, related to our childhood, our upbringing, particularly when we were in the womb and when we were between the ages of 0-7 years of age. These remain in our subconscious all our lives, it is these experiences that mould our adulthood and our experiences. We keep on reliving our childhood experiences all our life.
If our childhood was filled with trauma and dysfunction, then our adult life mirrors that, that’s why people who have an abusive childhood have an abusive adulthood. We relive our childhood experiences over and over and over again, until we reveal to ourself that we need to get our of this cycle and take responsibility for our actions in the present.
It’s not our fault what happened in the past, particularly when we were children, but when we are adult, we must take responsibility for our life, our happiness and all of our decisions, staying stuck in the past, blaming others for our failure is not taking responsibility for our own life.
Taking responsibility means taking our powers back, stop blaming the past (and people in it) for our failures, heal ourselves and move on from a painful past to a beautiful present, a lot of work is needed for this, but it is possible to have a beautiful life filled with love once we take responsibility of our own life, wellbeing and happiness.
There are many ways to heal the self, to reach the point of self love, forgiveness, unconditional love and compassion for those who have harmed us. By seeing them as beings who had too much pain, who did not know how to live life, how to make their own life better, how to love others, their way of showing love was to control, enslave, possess what they felt was theirs, they did not know freedom, but have always been caged, how to take responsibility for their own happiness and wellbeing, by having strong boundaries, by saying no, by standing up for themself and by honouring themself.
Those who control and enslave others into relationships of enslavement are not happy for themself, being themself, they will pass on their pain and suffering to others through abuse, psychological, spiritual, emotional, physical, psychic/mental abuse and control. That’s all they know and are used to. They have been doing this forever and they are not able to change. These people lose a lot because they do have a lot of loving people in their lives, but because of their enslavement of those around them, they end up alone and rejected.
No one wants those who control, enslave, abuse others, so – they tend to end up totally alone and their cycle of abuse, resentment, hatred continue for those beings. They don’t want to break the cycle and habits they have become so accustomed to. After all, owning other people’s powers is such a boost of power for the self isn’t it? they don’t want to do the hard work of looking at their own source of pain and suffering, to unveil the truth about their ways and start the healing, so, we have to move on, without them, to make sure that we are healthy, happy, heal in a safe place without those who control, manipulate, harm and abuse.
Once we reach that level of self love, we have taken responsibility of our own happiness.
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