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Return of the divine feminine

Breakthrough!

starseed sirianIf life has been a long struggle for you, not understanding this world, the culture, politics, religions, faiths and belief systems of this world have been a problem, then you are like me.

Systems have been corrupt and destructive, it has been a long journey to first innerstand the ways of this world, dirty politics, no good intentions, not much goodness, where good seems to suffer and horrible things and people thrive.

If you’re like me, a sensitive soul, trying to innerstand this world and also to live in its violent systems, then, it would have taken you a long time.  It’s taken me all my life.

I have met some shady characters, passing as good.  All they want is to fleece you of your goodness, they look good and if you’re trusting like I am, then you have been fleeced probably all your life.  But, it’s ok, we now know what this world is made of.  Lots of bad people, trying to take advantage, take, own, possess, violate, persecute, victimise others.  They want to make a fast buck, own, possess others’ energy! Beware!!!

Then, there are the good people, who are honest, kind, givers, healers, selfless beings, healing, rebuilding, creating, speaking good words, acting with the highest integrity, high moral compass, who never sold their souls to the corrupt people and systems.

We are the warriors, the misfits, the rebels, the one who are always fighting for justice, humanity, righteousness, goodness.  We are changing the world with our force, we are the powers of the past, present and future.  We are here to make waves, to change the system from within, we are here to stay.

We failed big, we died many times, our souls drowned many times, we dissociated with these systems all our lives, we have been depressed, stressed, sick and dis-eased, because everything around us has been rotten, it was tough to trust, as we are such trusting beings, we trusted the wrong people, we trusted evil kinds.  We fell hard.

As light warriors, we have been here for a long time, we have lost for that long, but not anymore, we have risen and we are here to remain risen.  Evil masters came in many disguises to defeat us, they came as friends, masked themselves as perhaps lovers, benefactors, friends, colleagues, bosses, mentors, politicians, gurus, spiritual guides, teachers, students or someone close to us.

We’re the light ones, we may not have known everyone’s intentions right from the start, but now we do, we have unveiled everyone, we know everyone’s intentions, we innerstand relationships, people, humans, race, religion, politics, politicians, educational systems, financial systems, gurus, we innerstand what’s good, what’s not.  We have been unmasking everyone.

We have kept what’s good for us and released what’s not good for us, we are here to stay, no one can defeat us, we have met evil in person and we have defeated them, they have no power over us and we have mastered their systems.

It’s now time to rise and many breakthroughs are here now.  It’s our time, know that not everything and everyone has good intentions, protect yourself, your work, your abundance, fruits of your labour, trust but with discernment, not everyone is your friend, not everyone is trustworthy.

Have faith, right now all is well and will be so.  You have surpassed the tough times and you have reached the other side, the safe passage is here, from now on, your life is going to be a masterpiece.

Take good care friend of light.  Keep your legacy of light, keep doing what you’re doing, keep fighting the good fight, with high morals, integrity, never sell your soul stay true to you and what’s right, this is your time.  You have arrived and the universe is cheering you on.

Your wings’ flutter has reached the deepest recess of this universe and all the divine is cheering you on! YAYYY! we have waited for your success, for a looooong time.  Sigh with relief now.  It’s YOUR TIME!

Kiran G

10 Stages To Break Out of The Painful Past!

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It’s tough not to focus on the bad things that have taken place.  When we are stuck in the past, not knowing how to move forward, it can be difficult to find a way to move on.

After all, life is a blend of attentiveness to the detail of things, being proactive, taking action and also a mixture of letting go of the past.  How do we let go of the past?  How do we focus on the present, if all we think about is the pain of the past?

The key to not being stuck in the pain and suffering of the past, is to constantly work on healing that past.  The healing work takes time, we cannot focus on the present, the goodness we already have, until we have made peace with our past.

Focusing on the Negatives for too long, steals life out of life!

The past is a dimension in our unconscious/subconscious part of the mind.  Where we have stored stuff that we do not want to see, hear, know, feel, touch or smell.  The problem is that the more we repress those issues, the more lessons are presented to us so we are taken back to our original wound.

The original wound, is that wound that hurt us so much, that our mind does not want to remember.  When we go back and deal with that “mother of all wounds”, we then can heal and move on.  Focusing on the past, is not so much a focus, it is where we end up living, if we do not resolve the issues that we have, with the people that we have.

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Aim To Resolve Your Issues

Aim to resolve your issues, do not file away your pain indefinitely, the pain that kept you so long into the cycle of suffering.  Let go of what does not work, especially old relationships, toxic situations, worn out energies, old patterns, people whom you don’t align with anymore,  those who are critical, abusive, who make you feel bad.  Find a solution that works for you, you are the best judge of that.  Also, not everyone is your friend.

So, be discerning!

Once you resolve your past, your focus will shift on the present.  The attention will not be pulled in the past, where all the pain is, but will see and enjoy the goodness that is already here.  When they say “let go of the past” – what people really mean is to resolve your past, with the people who have been a pain in your life.

 

How to Let Go of the Past

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You don’t have to be around those who have hurt you, you don’t have to talk to them to resolve issues with them, it can all be done through visualisation and meditation (in your mind).  Practice forgiveness, this may take many times, but eventually, it will happen.

Resolving your past can be done in 10 stages:

  1. Inventory – Routinely look at what needs changing in your life.  Take an inventory of what you want, what needs to go. Declutter and detoxify your life – energetically.
  2. Nourish – Create a nourishing environment for yourself, a life you feel happy to be in,  to come back to, with good friends, people and loved ones only.  Declutter/Detoxify the old energy, let go, have a clear out, mentally let go of things you don’t need, then physically it will also happen.
  3. Speak Out – Talk about your issues with someone you trust, one good friend who is not going to judge you, will just listen, offer guidance and support if needed. Journal, write things down, let it out in some way.
  4. Reassure – Reassure yourself that you are ok, you are doing the best you can, you are trying your best and that you are safe.  This will stop anxiety/panic attacks.
  5. Introspection – Schedule a time for self care, self introspection.  Look at the issue regularly, try not to box it away indefinitely,  open that dark room full of pain and suffering, take your time, be gentle with yourself.  For the first time, see the good in the people who have wronged you, see their perspective of things.  I.e – they may have passed their pain onto you because they know nothing but pain.
  6. Mindfulness – Practice Mindfulness and Meditation.  Keep breathing deeply.  We can calm ourselves down totally through our breath, breathe deeply into your belly, keep a steady, deep flow of breaths, count 3 seconds – inhale, pause for 3 seconds, exhale for 3 seconds.  Repeat for 5 minutes at regular intervals.
  7. Love – Do what you love, be with those whom you love, eat what you love, practice self love.
  8. Move – Move your body, walk, dance, flow into your movement.  This will heal you from traumas.  Yoga and Tai Chi are very good to heal the body, mind and soul.
  9. Create – make some art, cook, plant a garden, create something new, try something new every day, keep on doing new things, this will inject passion back into your life.  Try ART THERAPY, where you make art with your emotions.  This is totally intutive and unplanned and it’s very healing to the mind.
  10. Forgive – Forgive those who have wronged you.  Keep forgiving until the pain is gone.

Make sure you are constantly trying to clear the clutter, the old and worn out.  This is the key to self healing.  Accept the past, it happened, you don’t have to be a victim, acknowledge the pain/suffering.  Forgive and Let go.

Wish you well.  It takes courage to heal the self.

Kiran G

 

Speaking Our Truth, whilst being Loving!

Time to speak your truth. Go for it.
Do not be scared to speak your truth. It is time!

 Speaking our Truth!

When delivering information, wisdom and knowledge to groups, in public speaking, it is important to innestand that our truth is not other people’s truth.  Even well researched pieces can and will be contradicted and criticised.

I have seen great speakers, mentors, life coaches, motivational speakers being atacked and criticised for their truth, no matter how well researched.  WE have to accept that others will not always agree with what we have to say, teach and speak about.  AND that’s ok.

Others bring us a lot of knowledge.  They are also teaching us to be mindful of what we say, take responsibility, to be careful, to research our work and to also apologise when we get it wrong.  Sometimes, we will mean something and others will understand something else, they will take it out of context and not understand what was said, when spoken in the context of the subject. They may not innerstand the context in which it was said, the matter or subject, or it may be totally alien language to them.

Understand their pain, with Love.

There is always something to learn from what others are telling us, as feedback.  If we listen with awareness, non-judgemental filter and without defensiveness, we can see, hear what they are saying.  We can hear their fear of the truth that has been revealed.

We may not like what they are saying, but they are teaching us a lot, it may be that they are angry with us for showing them the truth, that they are not ready to accept and it’s why they become angry.

Sometimes, when information presented prematurely, they will get angry and are not able to accept it.  Knowing that the person is NOT READY for that raw truth is also a skill. Apologising to that person can soften the pain for them, as they struggle to ingest the new information,  this will teach them that it’s ok that you are not ready for the information and that I am sorry for the opening your wound, subconsciously, they are not aware that the struggle is there, we have opened a door that they never wanted to open and they glimpsed behind it and are angry at themselves, this can translate into anger shown towards you, but it isn’t you they are angry with, they are angry with themselves.

Trolls are in Pain!

Some can go a great length to show that you are wrong in your teachings, continuous anger, trolling, victimisation campaigns ( as I have seen some famous mentors go through).  It is my opinion, that people are not ready for the information being presented, they are used to their ways of  “doing business” and we have to work with others where they are, at the level they are operating at, with their own life experiences, not ours.  We may have gained the insight of a situation, problem, pattern, disease, but they haven’t, so there will be counter attack or criticism.

When we put ourselves out there, expressing ourselves, teaching something, perhaps sharing wisdom, there will be those who disagree. They will throw their own projections at us just so they can feel better about themselves. They will go to great lengths so they do not have to look inward to propel change in self.  A lot of people who are really ready for self examination, self mastery and change, will be willing to open those doors of those rooms that are so dark, which have old ghosts, pain, suffering, that has been shut forever, never to be opened, never to be talked about, never to see the light of day. Open those doors, see what’s being repressed.

When we repress thoughts, feelings and behaviours, we become numb, we die, we cannot function properly.  This death is at a very deep soul level.  This can then impact our physical, mental and spiritual health.  It is important when we are working on ourselves, we are open to doing everything to get the final result – self realisation – total freedom from pain and suffering.  This can only be achieved if we open all those doors, that we have shut down totally, in “Top Secret” compartment, “Never To Be Opened” door of darkness.  Those doors must be opened.  If someone triggers us into a state of anger.  We must ask ourselves why did that anger me so much?  Go inward and look for that wound/injury.

When someone reacts badly to a teaching, research, information, they are simply NOT ready for the information and if given to them at this time, they will not accept it and get very angry as this their way of protecting themselves and their truth.

Anger is a form of protection. It protects from someone coming to remove our well built shields, layers and layers of untruths and repressed emotions we have been hiding well.  If the truth comes to unveil what we have stored in the closet, which is embarassing to reveal to ourselves, then the subject may become angry with the premature information, knowledge and wisdom.

We can agree to disagree, as there are multitude of colours in a rainbow and hues of belief systems on this planet.  Add ours to that mix, there’s another system in place.  Your tribe will come to you, follow your path, speak your truth with love. Fear not, all is well, speak your truth, write your truth and it’s ok if some do not agree with your teachings, they are simply not ready for it and disagreement from others is merely a way to learn that some people are restricted to their own systems of beliefs.

Keep speaking, expressing yourself and being  in your truth, the world needs it.

Much love and power to your communication.

Kiran G

 

Your Happiness is Your Responsibility!

If we give too much importance to others and how they treat us, how we are a victim of circumstances, a victim of others, then we will always be a victim of others.

What will it take for us to take our own life into our own hands? our happiness into our own hands? What will take to take back ALL our powers? to realise that we have always been enough, that others do not need to validate us, our happiness now – do not lie in others’ hands, actions or inactions.

If you have felt neglected, abandoned at some point in your life, you were being reminded that YOU have neglected and abandoned your own self.  There is no greater thing than self love, it is complete love, when you feel the self love, you will feel the immense power you have, then it will not matter if you didn’t have a good life so far, if it was filled with pain and suffering, if your childhood was a really bad one, if you didn’t feel loved, or were abused by someone whom you trusted, if you weren’t protected by your parents, if your life was upside down.

What matters is that when we love ourself to the point of saying, ” I will not tolerate anyone, anything that abuses me, disrespects me, who does not honour me as much as I do, I will remove anyone from my life, if I don’t feel the level of honour and respect I have for myself” – and then follow up, give yourself that honour, that love, that respect that you have always wanted, waited for, once you have that for yourself, your energy will change and you will become ruthless in the way that you allow people to deal with you.

Once we begin to honour ourself, the world changes, the world aligns to bring more of the same vibration that we have been aligning with, all one-sided relations fall away, takers are dissolved, evil monsters cannot connect with us anymore, we become so elevated, that our energy repels those who do not align with us, friendships break, karmic relationships fall away, karma is cleared, pain and suffering dissolve, we see the truth about everything, we become very good at gaging situations and people.

It is important that we heal our wounds of the past and in childhood, so we have a good life.  Healing our past will bring up a lot of traumas, related to our childhood, our upbringing, particularly when we were in the womb and when we were between the ages of 0-7 years of age.  These remain in our subconscious all our lives, it is these experiences that mould our adulthood and our experiences.  We keep on reliving our childhood experiences all our life.

 

If our childhood was filled with trauma and dysfunction, then our adult life mirrors that, that’s why people who have an abusive childhood have an abusive adulthood.  We relive our childhood experiences over and over and over again, until we reveal to ourself that we need to get our of this cycle and take responsibility for our actions in the present.

It’s not our fault what happened in the past, particularly when we were children, but when we are adult, we must take responsibility for our life, our happiness and all of our decisions, staying stuck in the past, blaming others for our failure is not taking responsibility for our own life.

Taking responsibility means taking our powers back, stop blaming the past (and people in it) for our failures, heal ourselves and move on from a painful past to a beautiful present, a lot of work is needed for this, but it is possible to have a beautiful life filled with love once we take responsibility of our own life, wellbeing and happiness.

There are many ways to heal the self, to reach the point of self love, forgiveness, unconditional love and compassion for those who have harmed us.  By seeing them as beings who had too much pain, who did not know how to live life, how to make their own life better, how to love others, their way of showing love was to control, enslave, possess what they felt was theirs, they did not know freedom, but have always been caged, how to take responsibility for their own happiness and wellbeing, by having strong boundaries, by saying no, by standing up for themself and by honouring themself.

 

Those who control and enslave others into relationships of enslavement are not happy for themself, being themself, they will pass on their pain and suffering to others through abuse, psychological, spiritual, emotional, physical, psychic/mental abuse and control.  That’s all they know and are used to.  They have been doing this forever and they are not able to change.  These people lose a lot because they do have a lot of loving people in their lives, but because of their enslavement of those around them, they end up alone and rejected.

No one wants those who control, enslave, abuse others, so – they tend to end up totally alone and their cycle of abuse, resentment, hatred continue for those beings.  They don’t want to break the cycle and habits they have become so accustomed to.  After all, owning other people’s powers is such a boost of power for the self isn’t it?  they don’t want to do the hard work of looking at their own source of pain and suffering, to unveil the truth about their ways and start the healing, so, we have to move on, without them, to make sure that we are healthy, happy, heal in a safe place without those who control, manipulate, harm and abuse.

Once we reach that level of self love, we have taken responsibility of our own happiness.

May those who are lost find their way.

Kiran G

Speak Up, Speak Your Truth, Speak Out Loud!

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Speak your inner truth!

Balancing and healing the throat chakra is important for those who feel they cannot speak, aren’t able to speak or speak up, it is also for those who feel they do not have a voice, have felt invisible, mute, that something bad is going to happen for speaking or speaking up, have stopped speaking due to fear of reprisal, each time they speak, they feel attacked, someone is angry at them for speaking or speaking their truth, they lose a lot, they lose friends, family member, that trouble follows them when they speak, the authority or authority figures will come after them, they attract trouble or things generally go bad for speaking or speaking up.

A lot of good people are scared of speaking, they have either been in oppressive relationships, where they have felt they couldn’t speak or speak up, their parents were too controlling, telling them not to speak, or that if they spoke, bad things will happen, that speaking or speaking up means they do not respect their parents, that speaking or speaking up meant that they disrespected cultures, traditions or customs, that superstition dictated that speaking, speaking up, smiling, laughing or being free was bad and brought on bad luck and so on and on and on …

Some cultures thrive on women not speaking.  Oppression of women and girls are favoured as it means that the male authority figures have control over their female children.  Women are expected to be mute, to do as they are told, to submit to the male power and figures.  Over millenias, these cultures, customs, religions and traditions have normalised women being the inferior race.  It is seen as a sign of power, when a man has total control over his woman/women.  Women are meant to submit, follow in the footsteps of men.  Women cannot have a voice, they are ordered to stay quiet, the male is the only one who does the talking, the woman silently nods and submits to the man.

To date wedding ceremonies, including popular ones, include vows to submit to the man, the man is master and provider, the woman must submit to the man, that is the beginning of their life together, already there is submission and control.  The woman has a tough walk, discrimination follows her everywhere, in workplace, in marriage, in society, culture, tradition and everywhere else.  Now, add to that old fears of witch hunt, wise women being burnt alive as witches, systems making an example of strong women, who dared to speak up, be free, educate themselves, walk on the street late at night, try and do something against all the odds stacked up against her.

This isn’t a piece of writing to make us a victim, but is one to celebrate all of us who rise despite the seemingly insurmountable challenges that we face and still rise.  Some cultures do not see a powerful woman as a positive thing, they see it as a poison.  STILL WE RISE.  With power and opening that throat, that super power that reside within the throat, the power-house of a voice that we have.  Once we master the speech, the power of speaking, of communicating, with control, power, energy, without fear, we give other sisters permission to rise, to speak, to be and do what we want to.

This isn’t an “us versus them”, it is about gathering our strength, our power, using it to make the world a better place, it isn’t to be used to attack men, it is to be used for good, to empower, to educate, to love and speak with love, to teach that we aren’t to be feared, we are here to help, to add to the colours, the love, the power, to bring a new energy, to vibrate higher, to partner with our divine masculine, to help change cultures, vapourise those traditions that tell us that women are the enemy, that wearing a short skirt means she wants to be raped, that if she is coming into her powers, she must be harmed or violated so she submits again!

It is time to challenge the norms of society, to call out the injustices against women and men (who are feminine) who are also going through the same issues.  Open your mouth even if your lips split, open your throat even if it shakes, speak up, speak out, let the walls of patriarchy tremble, let the foundations of fear crumble, stand up, speak up and speak your truth.  It is time.

 

Kiran G

Speak your Truth

Family Placement!

Organising order, placement within the soul.

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Healing family placements, honouring the family system, giving everyone their rightful place, honouring the living and non living, giving each individual their rightful place in life.

Family constellation, is a healing modality, to heal the entirety of the family, ancestors, the whole constellation altogether.

Honouring our roots, cultures, walks, ancestors, cultures.  I am honoured to have served all the ancestors, as purpose.  I thank you all in all the expressions, in all manners and ways.

Honouring belonging, placement, order in the constellation.  The balance of giving an receiving.   Honouring the ancestors.

Kiran G